Make it unexpected. Nothing takes away the monotony in a relationship like
the unexpected! The next time you're not doing anything, initiate a little
sex play.
Add ambiance to your love nest. The next time you plan
on making love, light a few candles, spray a light scented fragrance and a
put on some soft music. Ambiance can heighten just about any romantic
situation.
Wear comfortable, but sexy lingerie. In order to feel
sexy, you need to look it AND be comfortable. If you are uncomfortable with
any part of your body, find lingerie that hides it or greatly compliments
another feature. Confidence is a great aphrodisiac and is easier to attain in
the bedroom when you look great!
Think about what your partner would
like. To add a new level to your lovemaking, take your time pleasuring your
partner. Add heightened interest by letting them know what you are doing.
Speak romantically during the entire session as well.
Women,
concentrate on only what you want. Believe it or not, one of a man's biggest
turn ons is a woman turning on herself. The next time you make love to your
partner, only do things that pleasure you. Just like in the above tip, the
key is in letting him know that is what you are doing.
Make love
in a new place. Add a bit of excitement and newness to your sex life by
making love in a new place! Rent a hotel room, try a different room, make
love in public... the possibilities are endless.
Without speaking,
take your partner and make love to them. Silence can be an exhilarating turn
on. This idea is especially effective when you do this as soon as your
partner comes home.
Don't hold back your emotions. Be free to
express yourself and your feelings when you make love. Voice how you're
feeling and don't be too shy to do whatever you feel like doing.
Try
using something new like ice or toys. While sex is great without any
enhancements, it can definitely be worthwhile to try a few new things. A few
ideas range from blindfolds, ice, toys, movies, etc.
Torment your
partner with at least an hour of foreplay. Better yet, drag it out throughout
the entire day. Suspense is a wonderful aphrodisiac and can greatly enhance
your love making